Concept Determines Our Quality of Life

If you are of the view that it is obligatory of your father to give you gifts on your birthday anniversary, you will be unhappy if he does not do so.

If you hold the view that your sub-ordinates must take your order and follow your instructions all the time, you will be unhappy when one of them does not.

If you think that when you donate to somebody in need, he must thank you, then you will be unhappy if he does not.

If you think that your boss must pat your back and praise you each time you make the right decision, you will be unhappy if he forgets to do so, even once.

In life, if we have preconceived ideas of what others must do when a certain thing is done or not done, then we will forever be setting demands that may not be fulfilled most of the time. This will bring stress to our own self, create tensions with people we need to work amicably to achieve the desired result. We will be judging others' behaviour by our own standard of what is considered good or unacceptable responses.

Our Life will be miserable if we do not change this concept.

Is your job the problem? Or it is your way of looking at the opportunity available else where? The media may be writing something that is unfavourable to the job seekers, but you can change your opportunity of landing a better job by simply refusing to believe what the media is saying, and really looking hard for it. It may just be the one that you want, right there, or here!